Traumatic Brain Injury Centers

Forgetful?

Material must be attended to before it is possible to program it into your memory. Some ways to help you remember or cue yourself are: For a word or name try to go through the alphabet. Sometimes this will bring back the name or word you are looking for. To remember an event: try recalling all the events surrounding it.Try to remember it through someone else’s eyes. Try reversing the order of what happened. Think about the less important things like what someone was saying or wearing. Think about where you were when the situation you need to remember occurred. Often the scenery will cue another part of your brain to remember the missing piece and this will trigger your memory. Try to put yourself in the same mental, emotional atmosphere, this aids recall.

Lose things?

Find a special place for each object you don’t want to misplace. Always put them back in that same place. Have a list of where you put things so if you forget you can check the list. Say aloud where you are putting something and rehearse it in your mind. For some people it helps to visualize or take a mental snapshot of where you are putting something. Don’t take anything, particularly documents, anywhere where you do not need them. If you lose keys etc., attach them to yourself.

How to remember instructions!

Write them down or record them. Picture yourself doing each step of the task. Repeat instructions aloud and restate them to the giver of the instructions.

Solutions for following verbal instructions

Write it down! People in the CIA and even the president write things down. Buy a small digital recorder and record the instructions. If neither of these options is available say it aloud three times in your head. Repeat it back to the person giving instructions to affirm you have heard correctly

I get sidetracked.

Finish one task before embarking on the next, use a checklist and check it off so you know when it is time to move forward. It is okay to ask others nicely to let you finish what you were saying or doing so that you can give your full attention to them once you have completed your current task.

Hints to avoid foot in mouth syndrome!

Train yourself to watch for other people’s reactions. Your communication might be provoking tension. This is a good time to ask yourself if the trouble you are about to receive is worth the expense. Try changing the topic. There is no crime in not telling all or saying you feel this is not the right time for you to talk about it. Be calm. A soft answer turns away wrath.

I get distracted.

Chart your course before you start and assign the amount of time you are going to spend on the task at one sitting. Work in a noise free atmosphere when possible. Do one thing and finish it before you move to the next task.. Think of how to reward yourself for finishing. Start small to build success.

When things go wrong…Don’t go with them!